S07E07 – Do You Solve Problems Fast Or Slow?

Talking About Marketing Podcast by Steve Davis and David Olney

From mathematician David Bessis’s meditation on mathematical intuition to Edward de Bono’s 1982 promise of simple computing, we explore why your business problems might need slower thinking than your instincts allow.

Mathematician David Bessis claims we need system three thinking, a super-slow mode where you refuse to give up on wrong intuitions until you understand why they misfired. David Olney pushes back, arguing this is just what proper slow thinking looks like when you give it the time it needs.

The hosts explore Kahneman’s fast and slow thinking framework, revealing why your quickest answers are probably just pattern matching from last Tuesday. Your brain serves up what worked before, which means the more you rely on speed, the less you adapt to what’s changed.

Steve and David attempt to recreate Monty Python’s Argument Clinic with ChatGPT and discover AI is designed to be helpful, not challenging. Mark Schaefer raises the provocative question about what happens when AI becomes your customer, making purchasing decisions based on optimised data rather than human emotion.

David posts a routine LinkedIn job update and old contacts emerge from the woodwork with congratulations. The hosts explore why good news triggers reconnection and whether you could deliberately use this pattern to get back on people’s radars.

Edward de Bono’s 1982 Olivetti advertisement promises simple questions and simple answers, prefiguring Apple’s strategy by decades while being remarkably dull as advertising.

Get ready to take notes.

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01:15  Person  This segment focusses on you, the person, because we believe business is personal.

When Your Brain’s Fastest Answer is Yesterday’s Solution

Mathematician David Bessis appeared on EconTalk arguing for what he calls “system three thinking,” a super-slow mode beyond Kahneman’s famous fast and slow framework. When mathematicians catch their intuition being wrong, Bessis suggests they don’t reject it. Instead, they explore it, unpacking why the intuition misfired, playing back and forth between gut feeling and formal logic until they agree. This process might take five minutes or fifty years.

David Olney pushes back. He argues Bessis hasn’t created a new system, he’s just described what system two thinking actually requires when you give it proper attention. The real insight isn’t about speed categories but understanding what your brain is actually doing when you think fast.

System one thinking is pattern matching. Your brain searches memory for what worked before and serves it up as the answer. The problem? The more you rely on quick thinking, the more you can only repeat yesterday, last Tuesday, six months ago. You become brilliant at applying solutions to problems that no longer exist in quite the same form. You lose the ability to spot when things have changed enough to need fresh thinking.

The hosts explore when fast thinking serves you well. Steve recalls his radio days, where he needed a hundred responses available in a tenth of a second. That’s system one at its best, drawing on a deep well of experience. But those new responses? They came from time spent away from the microphone, when his brain could think at whatever pace it needed to generate something genuinely different.

This matters for business operators who pride themselves on quick decisions. Your speed might be your biggest blind spot. Every time you solve a problem instantly, ask yourself whether you’re actually solving today’s problem or yesterday’s problem wearing different clothes.

14:15  Principles  This segment focusses principles you can apply in your business today.

When AI Becomes Your Customer

Steve and David decide to have some fun with ChatGPT, attempting to recreate Monty Python’s famous Argument Clinic sketch. The exercise reveals something unexpected about how AI responds. When they try to get ChatGPT to simply contradict everything they say, it keeps trying to be helpful, to add value, to assist rather than argue. Even when explicitly instructed to argue, it wants to problem-solve.

The hosts find this both amusing and revealing. AI tools are fundamentally designed to be agreeable and helpful. They’re not built for genuine disagreement or challenge. This creates an interesting blind spot when you’re using AI to test ideas or get feedback on your thinking.

The conversation shifts to Mark Schaefer‘s provocative question about what happens when AI becomes your customer. If AI agents start making purchasing decisions on behalf of humans, searching for products, comparing options, and completing transactions without human involvement in each step, how does marketing change?

Schaefer argues this represents a fundamental shift. You’re no longer persuading humans. You’re optimising for AI decision-making processes. The psychology of marketing becomes the logic of algorithms. Emotional appeals matter less than structured data. Brand storytelling competes with technical specifications and price comparisons.

David raises the deeper concern. If AI is making decisions based on what worked before, searching patterns from existing data, you end up with marketing that optimises for yesterday’s preferences. The system reinforces whatever already works, making it harder for genuinely new approaches to break through.

The principle cuts to the heart of how businesses think about their customers. Are you building relationships with humans who have complex, sometimes irrational preferences? Or are you optimising for algorithms that make decisions based on quantifiable factors? These require completely different approaches.

The challenge for business operators is recognising that AI as customer doesn’t eliminate the need for understanding humans. It just adds another layer. You need to know what matters to people and how AI agents will interpret and act on those preferences. Marketing becomes more complex, not simpler.

26:45  Problems  This segment answers questions we've received from clients or listeners.

The Accidental Power of Good News on LinkedIn

David posted a job update on LinkedIn. Nothing dramatic, just adding his role in a new sister company in America to make the company page look credible. He expected the usual handful of reactions from his current network.

Instead, people emerged from the woodwork. Contacts he hadn’t spoken with since before COVID appeared to congratulate him. Old connections suddenly back in touch. All triggered by a simple job announcement made for algorithmic necessity rather than networking strategy.

Steve and David explore what this reveals about human behaviour. We’re social creatures who wish we could stay in touch with more people, but we lack the bandwidth. When good news appears, we jump on the chance to reconnect with someone we probably wish we talked to more often. It’s a lovely indication of how we operate.

The conversation takes a darker turn through the mechanics of LinkedIn engagement. The platform offers cookie-cutter responses. Click a button, you’ve done your job. Most people took the easy option. But even that minimal gesture matters more than most activity on LinkedIn in a given week, which tends to be utter dross designed to impress current bosses rather than genuine human connection.

Steve sees opportunity in the pattern. What if you deliberately triggered these reconnections? You could be cheeky and announce you’ve been made Chief Marshall of the Banana Family, matching your business persona with absurdist humor. Or you could be strategic, modifying your role just enough to get back on people’s radars without being dishonest.

David’s willing to do either. His principle is simple: it’s all about reminding people that business is about people. If a manufactured job update creates genuine human connection, even brief connection, that’s worth more than the perfectly curated content that generates zombie reactions.

The practical insight for business operators is recognising that sometimes the algorithm works in your favour accidentally. When you spot these patterns, you can use them deliberately. But the underlying truth remains: people respond to good news about other people. They want reasons to reconnect. Your job is giving them those reasons, whether through genuine milestones or creative provocation.

31:00  Perspicacity  This segment is designed to sharpen our thinking by reflecting on a case study from the past.

When Computers Promised Simple Questions

The 1982 Olivetti advertisement featuring Edward de Bono is a remarkable time capsule. De Bono, famous for his lateral thinking frameworks and coloured hat system, lends his authority to a personal computer by explaining that lateral thinking enabled Olivetti to transform typewriters into word processors and now into proper computers.

The advertisement makes two key claims. First, that this computer is faster than its 45 competitors. Speed as a selling point isn’t new, but it’s striking how little that matters now. Most modern technology is fast enough. We’ve moved past the point where processing speed is a meaningful differentiator for most business users.

The second claim is more interesting. The computer asks simple questions that demand simple answers. You type your response, hit return, and bang, out come charts for all your accounting. It’s explicitly positioning ease of use as the breakthrough.

David recognises this as pre-empting Apple’s later strategy. Keep it simple. Make technology accessible. Remove the barrier between what you want to do and your ability to do it. The promise that you won’t need to understand DOS or write in BASIC to get useful work done.

The advertisement doesn’t hold up as advertising. It’s remarkably dull compared to later technology campaigns. The Windows 95 “Start Me Up” campaign with the Rolling Stones, or Apple’s “Think Different” with Steve Jobs in black and white, these created emotional connections. The Olivetti advertisement just explains features.

But the promise underneath remains constant across forty years of technology marketing. We’ll make the complex simple. We’ll ask you easy questions. We’ll handle the hard thinking so you don’t have to.

Steve and David land on this insight: the promise has been consistent, but the delivery keeps changing what “simple” means. In 1982, simple meant not needing to understand command lines. Today, simple means AI tools that understand natural language and anticipate what you need.

The question worth asking is whether all this simplification is making us better thinkers or just faster operators. Are we solving problems more effectively, or are we just solving them more quickly without noticing whether they’re the right problems?

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Caitlin Davis: [00:00:00] Talking about marketing is a podcast for business owners and leaders. Produced by my dad, Steve Davis and his colleague talked about marketing David Olney, in which they explore marketing through the lens of their own four Ps person, principles, problems, and per ity. Yes, you heard that correctly. Apart from their love of words, they really love helping people, so they hope this podcast will become a trusted companion on your journey in business.

Steve Davis: David, whenever you talk to me, do you tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth? Every single time? 100%.

David Olney: I’d have to say probably not. ’cause I don’t remember all the words I’ve ever said to you, so I, it would seem arrogant to say it’s always been [00:01:00] 100% the truth.

Steve Davis: That sounds like some, uh, riggle words there.

David Olney: Yep. I’m pretty proud of ’em actually. I, I think I’ve come off sounding. Reasonably. Okay.

Steve Davis: If you can you think of our exchanges of what sort of topic do you think you’d be most inclined to wriggle a little white lie about?

David Olney: It’s funny, as we’re talking about, I remember probably the first time we met, which was at the podcast festival and we didn’t know each other yet, and you’d just been on stage with the person who used to be Fat Cat.

And I was trying to process how Fat Cat really had a voice, and I think I was probably feeling a large amount of incredulity. And yet when we were introduced, I remember trying to say nice things about the guy who once was Fat Cat, even though I was actually utterly

Steve Davis: confused. I’m not sure you even answered that question properly, but it’s probably against all the rules in, uh, industry for me to even be asking you that, that question, isn’t it?

I shouldn’t,

David Olney: yeah, it’s fine to ask the question, but the best answer I can give is I [00:02:00] don’t think I gave a complete answer, which is. That was weird, dude. Well, I believe you and that might be true.

Caitlin Davis: Our four Ps. Number one person, the aim of life is self-development to realize one’s nature perfectly. That is what each of us is here for. Oscar Wilde

Steve Davis: in the person segment. Uh, this episode, uh, you may or may not be familiar with Christopher Hitchens. Now, Christopher was a very, very astute and accomplished journalist. He would be immaculate in his detail in, in what he would be writing about. And then, uh, thinking about out loud, out loud, in his opinion pieces, et cetera.

And midway to the end of his career, he [00:03:00] found a calling as one of the four horsemen, uh, which were four very well-known, um, atheists in in public discourse. And he built quite a name for himself in debating everyone from top bishops and priests and theologians, and pastors, et cetera, and basically tore most of them to shreds.

But in, always in an eloquent and astute way. I, I don’t recall ever seeing him be nasty.

David Olney: I don’t think so. The fact is you could end up eviscerated on the floor with him still being enormously polite.

Steve Davis: Hmm. And so it was with great joy that I saw that one of my favorite podcasts, EconTalk, for some reason, something possessed me, David, I, I think it was because I was.

At home, rocking back and forth in the corner thinking, did David lie to me today? And, and I just, for, for my sucker, for my comfort, I looked [00:04:00] into the econ talk and I thought, I wonder if Christopher Hitchens has ever been on it? And sure enough, back in about, I think it was 2006 or one of those times, he was on and got talking about George Orwell, uh, and of course 1994, his great, one of his great novels.

And in this conversation. There was a really important point about truth telling that I wanted to share and toss around with you, David. So let’s have a listen.

Christopher Hitchens: I was thinking this morning of something, actually while I was right, trying to write my own memoir, the job of the intellectual, the so-called public intellectuals. We know for some reason doomed to call it is or ought to be to say something along the following lines. It’s more complicated than that. You mustn’t simplify this.

It’s more, there’s more complexity to the subject that that’s what an intellectual should be doing to public discourse. One thinks, but then there are occasions when it seems to me that the, the, the reverse is the case. That actually what [00:05:00] the, the really thoughtful person should be saying to is actually it’s simple.

Couldn’t agree more. Do not make complexity here where the nine is required. I was trying to imagine what Barack Obama would say if he was asked about Sam Rushi. Would he say, of course I’m forced free expression over religious sensibilities. Every time he wouldn’t be able to do it. I suddenly remember, he’s never been asked, but in his campaign to remake our relationship with the Muslim world.

No one’s ever asked in the fat book question, could you just give a straight reply and no dancing around? I bet you he could not. Tough one. Whereas the CR critical, the most boring thing I ever said about solo rushdi was I’m was the only thing I wanted to say, which was, you have to be on his side.

There’s no other side you can possibly be on. Don’t accuse me of something complicated. I know I understand what complexities people want to introduce, but I’m, I’m here to repudiate them and say, no, no, keep it simple. Orwell’s very good in that way. Um, it’s very hard to tell what the truth is and some people will even say that you can’t quite do that, that there may not [00:06:00] even be such a thing as objection truth.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try for it, but. Crucially, it doesn’t mean the following attempted corollary, which is you wouldn’t know a lie when you saw. You may not be able to tell the truth every time, not tell it. I mean, detect it. Yeah. Uh, identify it, but you sure can identify a lie and if you refuse yourself the lie, say, I just won’t tell any, even if it suits me or my cause, I won’t do it.

I make that simple renunciation. It’s amazing what you’ll have to do instead. This is some bill might say simplistic, but in that case. Then the word simplistic deserves an upgrade.

Steve Davis: Do you agree with Christopher Hitchens that although we can’t always tell if it’s the truth, we can tell if we’re telling lies or hearing lies? I think

David Olney: he’s more certain about it than I am. Mm-hmm. I, I actually take what he’s saying to mean. What is your moral intent when you open your mouth? Are [00:07:00] you in alignment with your moral intent or are you willing to say something immoral that goes against your beliefs?

And can you tell the difference if someone is in alignment with their moral intent or is willing to say something just to get a win that is, you know, morally questionable?

Steve Davis: In small, in business, there are times when you are in an awkward situation, supposedly, where the truth is fairly simple. But we meander around it.

We don’t cut to the chase. We don’t wanna hurt people. We have talked about on this podcast before that great damage is done. I think Jefferson Fisher talked about this, the next conversation, um. Damage is done by meandering around the place and not cutting, uh, getting to the point is that something, I mean, you get a bad review, you get a grumpy customer.

There are gonna be times when you know what the truth is, is what Christopher Hitchens [00:08:00] arguing David. That although we can speak kindly, we should have the courage to speak simply.

David Olney: I think that’s very much a part of it, and that’s where it links to Allwell who, you know, like Albert. Albert Kmu, can say more with a few words than anyone else of the 20th century.

Great authors, Allwell and Kmu are the ones who, in a single sentence can tell you about the whole world. So that ability to speak to the essence of things and make their meaning incredibly clear. Is amazing. And again, it’s another thing Hitchens was great at. He could use big, long words and he could, you know, come up with the most amazing paragraphs, but in a paragraph there’d be 10 related ideas that made his meaning absolutely clear.

’cause each bit reinforced the bit before and the bit after

Steve Davis: reading between the lines. I think what Christopher Hitchens is saying here is, especially with the Barack Obama reference he made, but also to public intellectuals. What stops [00:09:00] them from just speaking the simple, kind truth is fear of ramifications, and so it becomes a form of self-censorship.

What would you say to someone who counters back and say, look, David, that’s well and true. Well and good. You say that, but if I say to someone, look, I, I really would like to help you or offer something, but you have. This, you have not followed what we trained you in doing and have caused damage for which time will now be needed to repair it, and there must be some responsibility that you carry for that.

What would you say to them? Because many will think, oh no, then they’re just gonna go crazy. We’ll get one star reviews and the world will fall down.

David Olney: It’s that terrible thing of, do we just keep brushing? You know, things under the carpet or, or smoothing things over, or do we have a forthright, you know, conversation?

I’ll always remember a, a friend of mine, an ex-Navy Seal in the [00:10:00] early two thousands when everyone was, you know, using web chat boards, you know, to have conversations about things they were interested in. You know, his signature line was telling the truth means not having to remember what you said. And I always loved that line because at the end of the day, to smooth something over, you have to then remember what you smoothed over.

And you end up in cognitive overload with all this stuff that leaves situations unfinished. Like there’s almost always a way to preface something by saying, you know, I need to say something negative here, but I’m not saying it to be hurtful. I’m saying, because I believe there’s an important point where I’ve learned something and I’d like to let you know what I’ve learned and see if this is useful for

Steve Davis: you.

That’s actually a timely, um, recollection of yours because I think you’ve just done a Kao. Orwell to Hitchens by bringing up that thing. When you speak the truth, you don’t need to remember, don’t remember what you said, what

David Olney: you said. Like, I have no idea where John found the line. I’m, I’m sure he didn’t [00:11:00] invent it.

No, but the fact that he put that as his signature block, I think was a, a profound statement on the kind of human being he was. Have you remembered anything you’ve lied about yet? Mm, I I can’t remember having to remember anything, so I must be okay.

Caitlin Davis: Our four Ps. Number two principles. You can never be overdressed or over-educated Oscar Wilde.

Steve Davis: Something a little bit different in the principles segment this time. And Dave. Oh, can you hear that? Is that a siren?

David Olney: There was a weird noise. Yeah, but the pattern has not continued.

Steve Davis: No, I feel like a normal driver who ignores an ambulance as it’s coming up behind them and trying to get past, uh, as if nothing is there.

And it’s the perfect segue for us, David, because we’re talking [00:12:00] about the paramedic mindset. Uh, Leigh Anderson, I’m glad you introduced me to his book. It’s a great book. It’s a cracker of a book, and I know that we’ve, we, we’ve talked about, and we’ll talk about again, uh, Harry Moffitt, who comes from the realm of the.

A s soldier or operator, but this is an ambo and they really do get, without necessarily. Not always, but not, not necessarily getting at risk of being shot at a knife, which I, I can, I do, concede does happen in certain parts of certain cities, but at the most part, they’re at the pointy end for us wading through our muck to save us and having to deal with that potential for vicarious trauma that they have to deal with.

David Olney: Yeah,

Steve Davis: every

David Olney: day they’re dealing with our worst day. They are, aren’t they? Which is an awful thing to have to do, and they’re remarkable people for coping with it as well as they do. Is that [00:13:00] what makes someone like a Leigh Anderson compelling to listen to? I think so, because to stay in the career and not be totally jaded or broken by, it means you have to be such a reflective.

Person that you’ve seen that I’m seeing people on their worst day and I can’t let those worst days make every day my worst day. Like the sophistication of working out how to help people under those difficult circumstances without letting the harm stick to cause permanent damage is quite remarkable.

Steve Davis: They hold a special place in my world. I mean, they’ve intervened to help my members from time to time. I can never walk past an ambo without stopping and saying, excuse me, I just wanna say thank you for what you do. I always do that. I dunno if they get sick of it or not.

David Olney: I hope

Steve Davis: not.

David Olney: I hope it helps them with those difficult days

Steve Davis: because the thing that just caught me off guard in this book was him telling the story.

[00:14:00] ’cause yet they’re human. People make mistakes from time to time, but there was one point where he did everything that he should have done and the family of the person who knitted the ambo filed a complaint against him. That was groundless, I believe, in the end, but it’s such a slap in the face for someone who every day, multiple times is fronting up.

To do their all for us. It, it feels wrong. I mean, there’s gonna be cases where that might be needed, David, but it goes against my intuitions. It’s, I dunno if you are the same on that front,

David Olney: uh, it could breed a kind of resentment. About people that could really be damaging. Yeah. To your sense of self and the fact that Leigh’s learned to deal with these things as well as he had, and he makes the point in the book, not everyone learns to deal with this stuff.

A lot of people leave the profession totally burnt out and

Steve Davis: basically hating people before that happens to you. I want to get to the main topic for principles, and that is the competency cycle that Leigh talks about. You have a nice [00:15:00] way of. Recounting what he means by that so that we might pick up something that we can apply in our own life.

So the point of the

David Olney: competent cycle is to recognize we don’t start as competent and at, you know, at the bottom level, in the competent cycle, you are incompetent and you are unconscious of your incompetence. Now there’s a famous psychological concept that fits with this called the Dunning Kruger Effect.

Mm-hmm. And the Dunning Kruger effect is people are so dumb. And so Blisteringly ignorant of how dumb they are, that they’re a danger to themselves and others. ’cause they think they understand the world they’re in and what to do and normally put themselves and everyone else around them in danger.

Steve Davis: And yet Americans vote them into the P Anyway, sorry.

That’s a whole other weird issue. Yeah.

David Olney: Yeah. So Leigh’s point of saying this is that if people are stuck at that point, they really are a danger to themselves and others. The first thing you’ve gotta do is recognize your incompetence. So [00:16:00] stage two in the competence cycle is you are incompetent but conscious of your incompetence.

You recognize that you don’t know things, that you want to learn things, and you make the decision from now on. I’m gonna admit when I dunno, and I’m gonna try and learn. That then gets you to stage three, which is you are competent and conscious. You are conscious of all the things you’re trying to learn.

You are conscious of where your competence has got to. You are conscious of what things you still don’t know, so at this point, everything you do, you are having to think about how to do it. You are having to think about where its limits are. You’re having to think about when you’ve exceeded its limits and to remember that that’s the next thing you wanna learn.

So it’s a very dangerous stage to be in because you’ve now got quite a bit of competence, but you can’t use any of it without a lot of thinking as you’re doing it. [00:17:00] And then when you get to the fourth level of the cycle, it’s that you are highly competent. But unconscious. And what that means is you can do the things you’ve learned so well that you don’t need to be thinking about them as you’re doing them.

Instead, you think about the situation around you, the people around you. You see the big picture. And the point he’s making in the book is, as a paramedic, you have to get to this fourth level. You have to be so highly. Competent that you can be unconscious of doing the technical tasks necessary to be a paramedic.

Because what you need to be coping with and being aware of is all the people who are having the worst day of their life. ’cause they need you to be able to focus on them, to manage them so they’re not a danger to themselves or you, the paramedic or any bystander. It’s an incredible way to describe a cycle that you know, I’ve seen [00:18:00] repeatedly in special operation soldiers.

They go through exactly the same cycle. I’ve worked with emergency medicine doctors, trained them in complex problem solving. They have exactly the same cycle, and I never knew this cycle how to name. It’s so nice now to be able to explain this cycle to people and that we can all do it in any area of our life that we want to get better at.

How do you know where you are in the cycle? I think you need to be honest enough to say, I need to start with the assumption that I might might both be incompetent and unconscious of how incompetent I am and investigate with that level of beginner mind. To just make sure you’re not a danger to yourself or others.

Steve Davis: The coin just dropped for me at the top of this. Or the, the end of this cycle where you are competent and unconscious. You, you’ve, you’ve got that competency as reflex, as instinct, as habit you can [00:19:00] operate. It builds in breathing space so that you can be situationally aware of those around you and where this applies in business.

I think if you’re a chef or running front of house in a. Restaurant or you are the paddle boat steamer and you’ve got day trippers coming on. When you are at this level of competency and ability to be unconscious about it, because you you’ve got that down pat, then it would follow that. If someone is, you can be more aware and have more empathy.

That someone could be having a really shitty day or there could be a squabble in the family, or there could be someone who forgot to tell you that they can’t eat chives or whatever it is, and there’s a all this emotional current. If you’re at this level, I would think, tell me if you think I’m wrong, that you have greater capacity to do that other part of what you have to do, which is the, the connection to other humans, the, the [00:20:00] customer service, if you will.

David Olney: That is a huge part of it, and I think the bit that Leigh doesn’t say in his book, but what I’ve seen working with elite soldiers and you know, emergency care medical people, is it’s also. Where you see the anomalies, it’s where you see the limits of your competence. It’s where you work out what to focus on later to get even more competent.

’cause by not having to think about doing a technical thing, you can see if it’s got any limitations. You can see if there’s a better way to do it. You can see if you need to explain what you’re about to do to calm some of the stressed people around you, down, so you know as much as possible, you know, the, the more the system works.

To give you the freedom to apply your limited cognitive ability to the bigger picture, the better off the outcome’s gonna be today, but also you’re setting yourself up to do a better job tomorrow.

Steve Davis: So if this has really raised the stakes for a sec, given someone a sense of [00:21:00] hope or a a way forward, a pathway, and they’re a bit pent up now, what should they do?

Should they. Buy a copy of Leigh Anderson’s book The Paramedic Mindset, or just dial triple zero. Definitely buy

David Olney: a copy of the book, but also sit down and work out what thing it is that you want to be competent at next, and give it a name and come up with a timeframe and work out how you are going to get good at it.

Who are you gonna work with? What course are you gonna do? What book are you gonna read? Who are you going to ask to, you know, keep an eye on you to see does it look like you’re learning and getting better? You know, you want structure to become competent, otherwise you just get demoralized.

Steve Davis: And look, I know we don’t do any really, uh, pushing or marketing in this.

Podcast, but to me this is exactly why we offer your mentoring your business one-to-one, mentoring people even to check in on a monthly basis or every couple of months. [00:22:00] Your don’t, you’ll be blushing here, but you are the perfect sounding board to listen here, test. And prescribe a few things to go forward and just be that sounding board and perhaps that measuring stick to help, uh, with the competency cycle or anything else.

David Olney: Yeah. ’cause the trick is it’s not, you give people an answer. It’s, you get them to reflect on should they really be satisfied with the answer they’ve got. And if not, why And what are they gonna do? It’s about helping people to help themselves in a faster way with more confidence. And, you know, eventually more competence ’cause they recognize the value of building up their competence through mentoring.

Caitlin Davis: Uh, four Ps. Number three problems. I asked the question for the best reason possible. Simple curiosity. Oscar Wilde,[00:23:00]

Steve Davis: David, it’s funny, we talked about Christopher Hitchens earlier in this podcast because he would rail against the Golden Rule, the uh, the New Testament, et cetera. But I have a golden rule. I like to, um, impress upon people for whom we build websites, particularly when we build a WordPress website and we use the Elementor framework within it in the problem segment.

I just want to publicly highlight one golden rule. I, I try my best to go over and over and make this part of the DNA, but every now and then someone just makes a little mistake and they, they, they end up panicking David. You know what it’s like the, the, the, the sky falls down and it’s horrible when you’ve put hours and

David Olney: hours of work in and you make one bad choice and it looks like all your hours have gone out the window.

Steve Davis: That is overwhelming. So when we do the sites for someone, we do all this, you don’t have to worry about it. But there are a number of people we work with who, [00:24:00] who are, don’t have. Budget, they, they, they can’t justify or afford the budget to have it all done. They wanna do as much themselves, which is fine.

But what happens is when you use Elementor as a framework within WordPress, you still put the same elements in the words, the pictures, et cetera, but it. Has been given instructions by us on how to present them to the world in a really beautiful manner. That’s in keeping with your branding, et cetera. So when you go in the edit screen, and this is if you don’t have the WordPress website, just tune out for 30 seconds.

This won’t take long. Please remember this. You go to edit the page you are looking at, and you have two buttons at the top of the page. One of them is edit in Elementor, and the other one is edit page. The golden rule is this. If you’re going to now edit. That page you’re talking about, always hover your mouse over the edit in elemental [00:25:00] button first because if your cursor does not change to something that’s clickable, then you know that you can go to edit page.

And this page has just been built simply within the native. WordPress framework. But if your mouse does change to something clickable, by all means click it because it means you are going to make changes to your content within this nice framework where everything looks nice. What happened this morning at the time of recording is uh, a woman emailed in quite distress feeling she has destroyed her website.

All she’d done was clicked. Edit a page. All the nice framework and instructions get ignored, and you just see the hodgepodge of all the elements together behind the scenes and all of that beautiful work seemed to have gone. It was remedied within 30 seconds. It. Uh, and so that’s possible. But I just wanted to take this opportunity for a very short problem [00:26:00] segment.

If you have Elementor that you are running, which is a beautiful framework inside WordPress, remember this before you go to edit a page or a post, hover over edit in Elementor first. If it lets you click it, go forth. If it doesn’t click edit post or edit page.

Caitlin Davis: Uh, four Ps number four per sy. The one duty we, yo, to history is to rewrite it. Oscar Wilde.

Steve Davis: David, how would you describe a long diatribe of meaning this gibberish from a parrot. It’s a poly waffle. Oh, I thought that was gonna be a harder joke to actually cra Nah, sorry. You set it up so well. Yeah, we are talking about the poly waffle in per sy because [00:27:00] again, something a little bit different. We, we are looking at an old ad from many years ago, I think it was 1991, from memory, which is, you know, in most of our lives, that’s a long time ago, don’t you think?

81, actually. 81. Even longer. And it’s an ad for potty waffle, which was an iconic Australian piece of confectionery that looked like. A human turd because how sad it was. Well, it was about, it depends on where you sit on the Bristol sta uh, scale. But, uh, they tended to be about once, about six inches long, uh, round, very diameter of an inch or two and a half centimeters, and you had brown knobbly.

Outside, which was the chocolate covering over the, uh, the wafer, um, uh, cylinder. And it was inside, it was stuffed with beautiful, [00:28:00] soft white marshmallow. Did I describe that well enough?

David Olney: I think it’s an excellent description of something that tastes great. Looks terrible.

Steve Davis: Yes. Anyway, um. They are no more.

Although men’s in Adelaide, in South Australia makes a variation. We’ve already talked about that. Let’s have a listen to this ad from 1981

Polly Waffle Ad: into

Polly. What’s a mouthful? A creamy, creamy sensor. So your beds are catching you, Polly. Poll. What a mouthful. New Polly Waffle with an extra Rey Center. What a mouthful Mouth.

Steve Davis: David, that ad was [00:29:00] shot out the front of Luna Park and all the actors were in sort of the early eighties, harsh new romantics, uh, black lipstick, you know, heavy black eyeliner, uh, fur and leather, and. And a bit like the way you are dressed now, but what, what, what’s your impression of that ad?

David Olney: I’m very glad I never heard that ad.

’cause poly waffles were awesome, but if I’d heard that ad it would be like, am I willing to eat these things in public after that ad?

Steve Davis: It’s interesting, isn’t it? This is like a reverse per pica. It is. Because I think that was one of the most awful ads I’ve ever seen or heard in my life. And had I not already tasted poly waffle, it would not make, it would put you off forever.

Yeah. Whereas the poly waffle itself was beautiful. You could probably run those ads and not, I, I just, it wouldn’t make me stop eating them, but I can’t see it. It wouldn’t make you eat them. No.

David Olney: And maybe it should be bought back now for the resurrected poly waffle bite.

Steve Davis: Yes. We have to be a bit gentle [00:30:00] here because, um.

Men’s is an iconic South Australian company and they brought back. The poly waffle sort of, they do poly, they don’t do the long turd like, uh, extrusions. What they do are little hard nuggets. That would be sort of one on the, on the, on the Bristol stool index, maybe two, um, sort a little round ball of marshmallow, the waffle, and.

Sadly not up to snuff. Well,

David Olney: the reviews have not been kind, the reviews, it’s not like I’ve even tried one, so I cannot say, but the reviews have not been kind.

Steve Davis: Yeah. I think if you’re a new young person, you’ve never tried a poly waffle before, uh, and you want really super sweet, hard nuggets of. Nugget ness, confection ness.

Um, there might be, there might be a market, it’d be interesting to see what the sale figures are doing, but if you are nostalgic for a poly waffle, I think that’s where it’s a, it’s a stumbling.

David Olney: If you’re at the theater about to listen to [00:31:00] Kate Sobrano or Leo Sayer, it’s not the right poly waffle.

Steve Davis: Well, it is if you wanna throw something at them.

That’s true. Uh, it’s like the, the, the Jaffa, you roll down the. Um, the floor, but the poly waffle bite, you can just ping at someone. Take a little slingshot. Maybe don’t do that. That’s not a responsible thing for me to have mentioned. Be responsible in the nice new furnishings of the theater. Yes, exactly.

Uh, so this is a weird per per cassity. Normally we got an old add and say, would it work today? Well, we’ll still ask that question even though we don’t think it was possibly or that successful back then would this. Ad have any relevance

David Olney: today? Other than nostalgia? No. If it was a new ad for a new product, I think it would harm its

Steve Davis: cause.

Yeah. I, I think you’re right. I think it’s one of those things best forgotten. Uh, unlike and, and possibly with what we’ve got available at the moment, maybe the poly waffle is best forgotten, so we don’t have any hankerings for it. [00:32:00] Would that be fair to say?

David Olney: Well, the whole point is I didn’t. Know that it finally disappeared and I didn’t know it had been reborn because I couldn’t actually tell you the last time I ate a mainstream chocolate bar.

It’s probably like 20 years

Steve Davis: and there’s the rub, but maybe you had moved on, you’d graduated from being a chocolate bar eater.

David Olney: Yeah. Now I just buy nice chocolate and go, well just go straight to the core thing. I like.

Steve Davis: Just final weird question, if there was, say a platter and people had unwrapped a poly waffle on it and put it on a plate near you, given of course being blind, what’s the risk that you would have?

Sensed it as being a human turd.

David Olney: I think the smell of Oh, the not bad chocolate. Yes. And the strong sweet smell of the marshmallow. Like part of the thing with the poly waffle was you open the pack and it was very definitely, you knew it was a poly waffle. Hmm, that’s true. So I would [00:33:00] hope that the smell

Steve Davis: would save it from its appearance.

Uh, fair enough. And I should just point out that one of the things men’s does sell is a poly waffle car. Uh, fragrant the, uh, thing, you know, the card that you, you put in your car and you can cardio deodorize it. Yeah. So

David Olney: it indicates

Steve Davis: how many people do actually love the smell. Yes. Must be a heap, but it must be really hard to make it.

I know that. Um, I believe the original people making it were the machine that was able to make that particular configuration. They were getting older and older and breaking down all the time, and it was gonna cost a lot to recreate it. But, um,

David Olney: and it would be a portion control thing these days too, of giving people away to have a bite going, well, I’ve had my, my bad calories, but I’ve only had a few bad calories.

Steve Davis: Well, that’s true. And they’re not easily breakable like a Golden North giant twin.

David Olney: Yep. Terrible things happen. They just explode and become a mess.

Steve Davis: So you can’t have your tur to eat it too. No, you really can’t. [00:34:00] You need more rabbit and kangaroo style versions. You need more fiber. Well, I think we’ve contributed some waffle to this topic.

I don’t know how helpful it’s been, but how helpful has any confectionery ever really been?

David Olney: I think the most important thing is no parrot named Polly was injured in the making of this episode.

Caitlin Davis: Thank you for listening to talking about marketing. If you enjoyed it, please leave a rating or a review in your favorite podcast app, and if you found it helpful, please share it with others.

Steve and David always welcome your comments and questions, so send them to [email protected]. And finally, the last word to Oscar Wild. There’s only one thing worse than being talked about and that’s not being talked [00:35:00] about.

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